The decision to become parents is very exciting. But when that excitement turns to unanswered questions, fear and pain, the journey takes a very unexpected turn. It becomes a roller coaster ride of doctors meetings, tests, needles, and numerous decisions you never thought you would be making.

Your life becomes a mass of tangled webs, dreams collapse, friendships change, family relationships can become strained and your marriage experiences stresses you never saw coming.

Infertility is a jungle of unanswered questions, tests, procedures and treatment that may or may not work. Deciding what to do and how far to go can be a very mind boggling, and overwhelming time.

Miscarriage is a roller coaster of highs and lows. Finding out you are pregnant is the greatest feeling in the world. Waiting to hear the heartbeat and see that little one on the ultrasound screen are the milestones you look forward to in those first few months. When those milestones are snuffed out by the news that your baby is no longer alive you are left feeling lost and completely alone.

Still birth is neither a jungle, or a roller coaster. Its a moment you wish could be frozen in time yet you wish would never come. The days and weeks that follow are lived in a devastating fog. No matter which road your journey has taken the incredible ache of your empty arms is a life shattering reality you would give anything to alter.